If you’ve ever felt like something’s holding you back – like there’s an edge you haven’t quite crossed – then the missing piece isn’t more strategy. 

It’s power. 

And that’s where my expertise as a sexologist comes in.

Stripping bare and getting naked in front of 5500 strangers, friends and fellow queer folk doesn’t scare me…but the risk of leaving myself exposed absolutely does.

Being unwilling to strip bare is what's leaving you exposed.

It’s tempting, right?

To relegate entire feelings, energetic states and ways of being down to one of two categories. A binary of masculine or feminine. This or that. In or out. All or nothing. Our brains love a binary for good reason. It makes things seem easier. That sense of “easier” can have a cost though.

I listen to women like you every day of the week. 

Women who say they’re done with certain dynamics playing out in their business but their actions remain devotedly committed to those dynamics playing out. 

The point you’re getting stuck at in business is:

the guilt…

the frustration…

the bitterness…

the shrinking…

the looking outward…

These states are holding you back. When you’re in them, it’s as if you have no power to break through. 

Oh, but you do...