Women, we need to talk about what to do when sex is boring

Sex is so boring…

I agree, it is…

...until you’re willing to become vulnerable.

The issue isn't that you're not vulnerable - it's about who, where and what you're being vulnerable about. 

I know it can feel like what you're already doing and saying is enough. 

You're on stage and podcasts, sharing your story. 

You're so open, you're so expressive 

however 

when it comes to your partner and taking it all off in the bedroom...the vulnerability you've come to rely upon out in the world isn't there for you. 

You start wondering "where did I get it wrong?"

You're not getting it wrong. 

You are being vulnerable but you’re not truly being it with your partner.

The truth is, the vulnerability that's required in the bedroom and behind closed doors isn't the same as the vulnerability we share publicly. 

If you're doing vulnerability only in spaces where you can prepare and be selective about what you say, then your shame and fear is getting the green light to stay firmly put. 

If you're constantly trying to do vulnerability to be liked and relatable, you'll maintain connections and dynamics that can only stay at the surface. 

But truly satisfying intimacy that's possible from your unfiltered truth at each and every moment? 

That's a completely different depth.

You're no longer flicking through Brene's latest book to refresh yourself on the top three takeaways. 

You're being the woman who can consistently hold the power in each and every interaction, even when the conversation traverses into challenging and sensitive terrain. 

You're available for all it, without the usual feeling of being held back, when you own that you are more than capable of expressing all of what you want and desire and all of what you honestly feel. 

If you're doing "vulnerability" in the public realm but you're struggling to truly embody it in private, it's because your power is being controlled instead of given an access all areas pass. 

Here's what needs to shift to make that a thing of the past: 

Your vulnerability needs to reach the precise depths of the power that you're ready to own.

Be the one that trusts she cannot only go there but will expand into who she actually is when she does. You've done the surface version and the full 360 degree success of it will land when you go all the way in. 

Do this and by next week you'll be saying: "I can't even remember what I was so afraid of"

You don't need to keep preaching your vulnerability on podcasts and stages to be more powerful.

You need to go deep into your vulnerability in the spaces that are going to give you the intimacy, connection (and climaxes) you're secretly looking for. 

When you make this shift…You stop feeling "held back"

You stop feeling scared of "what will they think if I say that?"

You start cultivating the exact dynamics that build you into a powerful leader who has an equally powerful relationship. 

Your power is there to be felt beyond your business and into the bedroom so you can finally let go (and then some) 💦

When you really master that, that is when your sex life (and business) is going to be unrecognisable. 

If you're ready to hold the deep power that has you wondering where the real you has been this whole time, my one-time session is for you.