Being regulated in business – What no one talks about…
Being regulated is all the rage right now.
It’s hot shIt.
We’re being told our nervous system is “the CEO of our business.”
And, rightfully so.
But here’s what no one tells you…
A truly regulated nervous system doesn’t just keep you calm.
It’s the barometer of your aliveness.
And that includes desire and arousal in s e x.
Because where you thought being regulated meant staying zen and steady…
What it actually means is being able to access the full spectrum of states - at will.
Stillness. Power. Play. Chaos. And, yes…s e x.
But somewhere along the way, you put calm at the top of your priority list.
You chased peace, stability, and predictability, thinking that was the goal.
And in doing so, you smothered your own fire.
Your hunger. Your drive. Your edge.
A regulated system isn’t one that stays in one place.
A regulated system is one that can expand, surge, and contract with fluidity.
Which means if your sex drive feels non-existent…
if your arousal is flickering but never blazing…
if you can’t remember the last time you wanted to want it…
It’s not just a “low libido” (which we’ve already dismantled in a previous post).
It’s a sign your system isn’t fully online.
Because when you prioritise peace over power, you lose access to the very energy that fuels your next level.
Your next level of wealth, power, and pleasure in business isn’t in more calm, control, or trying to be good.
It’s embodying the full force of who you are - including your deepest, most undeniable desire.
Your fierceness.
Your wildness.
Your raw, unbridled pleasure.
Because that is what a truly regulated system can hold.
And if you’re ready to bring it all back online so it can revolutionise out there, you enter my one-month intensive THE SURGE.
