You love them but you don’t want to fuck them…
You love them.
You want to stay.
But you don’t want to fuck them.
And that contradiction?
It’s driving you fucking mad.
Because it’s not that the love is gone.
It’s not that you don’t care.
But your body?
It’s contracting every time they reach for you.
Constantly whispering: “Not tonight.”
You’re not turned on…
…not by the idea and
not by what should feel good
And that just adds fuel to the fire.
Because deep down, you want to want them.
You crave the chemistry. The heat.
The pulse-pounding, visceral yes, “Let’s do this.”
But it’s not there.
Because you’re not there.
You’re still mentally in your business - holding, planning, leading, delivering.
So when they reach for you, it feels transactional.
It’s interpreted as another ask. Another demand.
Because sex doesn’t turn you on when it feels like one more thing to manage.
One more thing to give away.
And your lack of desire?
It’s not a *problem*
It’s an invitation.
An invitation to stop giving from sacrifice.
To stop shrinking in the bedroom while expanding everywhere else.
To stop thinking you have to choose between love or lust.
Because when you reconnect to the power in your own body…
Not the performative kind.
Not the pretend-to-care kind.
But the molten, magnetic, nothing-can-f*ck-with-me kind…
That’s when you want again.
That’s when you get wet again.
That’s when you reach for them - and mean it.
You don’t need another scheduling hack.
You don’t need another podcast or pillow-talk tip.
You need access to the part of you that can’t be intellectualised - only felt.
Because when you’re connected to her?
Your desire wakes up.
Your body says yes.
And your relationship starts to feel like home and fire again.
That’s exactly what we do in Unleash Your Potency.
One private session. Seven days of integration.
A full reactivation of your body, your pleasure, and your power that cracks open the pathway to pleasure and profit.
Because you don’t have to choose.
You get to have both.
Fully.
Every. Single. Time.
