I’ve said this line as an email subject line: Your martyr mode is anti-pleasure

…and I got a lot of unsubscribes.

I know not everyone can stomach what I have to say, and I’m OK with that. 

It can feel too raw and too real sometimes – but that’s what I’m here for.

Because as long as women are walking around, buttoned up and living and leading from self-sacrifice instead of a surplus of what feels good, we collectively aren't moving the needle for each other or the generations that are looking to us.

It’s time to move the needle. Drastically. 

It’s time to put your attention on one of the parts of your identity that’s blocking your ability to feel pleasure - unbridled pleasure.

The biggest barrier and the biggest shadow part of you that is preventing your experience of pleasure and all aspects of your life is the martyr.

The martyr relishes and loves to say:

• You're not worthy of deep pleasure

• You're not deserving enough

• There is no way you should celebrate that thing because you haven't done all the steps, because you haven't worked hard enough, because you haven't proven yourself yet…

The martyr relishes the story of self-sacrifice and self sufficiency. 

*Yawn*

The martyr loves loves loves to push and push and push and push. So that pleasure remains elusive and always in the future.

Just reading this, are you feeling the strength that the martyr has in preventing you from experiencing full fledged pleasure in every aspect of your life, your work?

Are you feeling her influence in what happens in the bedroom, your connections, your relationships, your friendships, all of it?

When the martyr is running the show, and running her script and running her story, and seeking validation that she craves from overextending, all that's happening is she's getting off on that.

Truth is: You're getting something out of that.

And what hasn't happened yet is you don't have the tools to know how to manage her.

That's all that's going on. There's nothing wrong with you. It's not that you're not worthy. It's not that you don’t deserve it.

The martyr will tell you that. She will tell you that because that story was implanted in her years and years and years and years ago.

Your pleasure has been suffocated by the martyr because it was never safe for you to fully feel your pleasure. It intimidated people. It scared people and they weren't equipped to encourage you to be in your pleasure, because they were taught to be intimidated by their pleasure and so on and so on and so on.

The martyr is multi-generational. 

She goes back, back, back, back, back, back back.

And you being brazen enough to examine this to course correct this, to really look at this and move some of these pieces around and do things in an unorthodox way is you changing what will happen for the generations that come after you.

That is how important this work is.

That is why you have an opportunity to course correct this once and for all so that you can be in more of your pleasure.

And before the mask of martyrdom gets re-activated and says: I can do this and work this out on my own...

You need to know – you cannot break through the martyr on your own.

That in itself is the martyr at play and what she feeds off.

It’s your time to finally grasp...

...that you are worthy of this pleasure

...that it’s your birthright to be in pleasure in every aspect of your life and that is nothing to run away from

...that it’s nothing to hide from anymore

...that your pleasure is a completely natural state and a completely natural expression of how powerful you are.

At some point, you just forgot that feeling good feels f*cking amazing.

Here’s your opportunity to re-member.

My White Hot Pleasure On-Demand Experience is available to course correct that.

That’s because I want you to go ALL IN on your pleasure as soon as possible…

Here’s what’s inside the White Hot Pleasure Experience:

PART 1: THE PLEASURE INCUBATOR

💦 DAY 1: RELEASING yourself from the stronghold of martyr energy so pleasure can finally be welcomed in and have space to flourish and reign. 

💦DAY 2: INTEGRATING pleasure into your daily life by unravelling yourself from the habit of stockpiling and saving pleasure as a reward for hard work (only to realise you never actually feel it). This is what will have you putting pleasure first and speaking its language.

💦DAY 3: CULTIVATING pleasure in your BODY by defrosting any residual bitterness in your heart, so a clear channel can fire up your sacral centre.

💦DAY 4: CENTRING pleasure in your WORK by going beyond it being a vague possibility and making it inevitable. Work AND Pleasure is your new norm but it will only happen when you address this little known truth about your shadow side.

💦DAY 5: CELEBRATING yourself in the new and exhilarating ways through the power of approaching celebration radically differently from the methodical route that never felt truly satisfying. 

PART 2: THE EROS INCUBATOR

The Eros Sermon: This is where you orientate to and claim exactly what Eros energy is, what it values, how it moves and speaks, and why it dissolves the mask of perfection.

💃 The Eros Dance: It’s primal. It’s animalistic. This is the instinctive movement practice that will crack you wide open in record time.  

🎧 The Eros Subliminal*: is designed to amplify your Eros without actually doing a thing – it's personal growth work without the work part. 

[*Subliminals are musical audio recordings that contain messages that only your subconscious can hear. This one is designed to touch the depths that your logical mind can't access.]

BONUS

10 ways to have more fun and turn on in your business right now: A straight to the point audio that inspires you to try 10 empowering ways that inject more fun into your business. Turn On guaranteed.

This entire experience is available “on demand” so you can access it in the ways and at the times that stoke and evoke your pleasure. 

There are no live calls or any kind of group participation expected – this is just for you to explore as and when you feel called.

Are you ready to acknowledge that you’re worthy of unbridled pleasure?

Click here to make the call only you can and discreetly commit to your pleasure.

Lauren xo